I hate divorce

Divorce is a terrible thing, for everyone involved. I truly believe it shouldn't even be an option without abuse or someone affecting your mental state. It is way too easy for someone to just end a marriage. To ruin their kids lives forever. They will forever be hurt. They are damaged and shown that love doesn't have to last forever. They will be more likely to divorce their own husbands/wives because it is what they have been through. 

I have loved my husband for 11 years. (13 years of being together and 11 married). I've been 100% devoted as his wife. I have moved around the world and have only had him as my full time support. I've given all and more. I hit a bad spot, and he left. 

No matter what you should never give up on your spouse. You both will feel when things are wrong. That's when it's time to pull together and no let yourself pull apart. Don't be stubborn. You should ty any and everything to get to the root of the problem. Never give up on each other. 

Your spouse should always be first. Your marriage is the foundation of yor family. When it crumbles, you all feel the affect. I can see now how badly we were all hurting, even our children. 

So never stop dating. Always tell each other what's wrong. Never go to bed angry. Never go outside of your marriage for answers. Only go to each other. You both know your marriage, no one else does. Even if you think your marriage is fine, there's always room for improvement and it always needs worked on. You get comfortable and things start to slid down a slippery slope and before you know it, it has slipped right out of your hands.